Porn, Feminism Result in Heterosexual Breakdown
November 4, 2013Why young women
should protect their innocence,
which also is their charm.
"A cultural reaffirmation of marriage and family such as happened in the 1950's is sorely needed. This must be led by young women who must reserve themselves for courtship, love, marriage and family."
by Henry Makow Ph.D.
(Updated from Nov. 9, 2010)
A recent article describes heterosexual breakdown in Japan, a warning to the West of the consequences of Illuminati social engineering.
Young Japanese men and women aren't having sex. The "celibacy syndrome" portends a demographic catastrophe. Japan's declining population of 126 million is projected to plunge a further one-third by 2060.
" A 2011 survey found that 61% of unmarried men and 49% of women aged 18-34 were not in any kind of romantic relationship... a third of people under 30 had never dated at all...Although there has long been a pragmatic separation of love and sex in Japan - a country mostly free of religious morals - sex fares no better. ... The Japan Family Planning Association (JFPA) found that 45% of women aged 16-24 "were not interested in or despised sexual contact". More than a quarter of men felt the same way."
The phrase "pragmatic separation of love and sex" is a clue to what has happened. Thanks to feminism and porn, the two sexes no longer need each other. The sales of condoms is actually declining. Women are turned off because the culture is saturated with porn. Men are jaded and exhausted. Romance is dead.
These trends are already evident in the West. According to Pew Research Center, only 37% of US women ages 18-34 say marriage is one of the most important things in their lives. For men, only 29 percent.
In the UK, "Over the past 30 years, ...cohabitation has trebled, babies born outside marriage has quintupled, and single-parent families has trebled... the rate of divorce has doubled; and half of all children now experience their parents' divorce before they are 16." (Source)
A cultural reaffirmation of marriage and family such as happened in the 1950's is sorely needed. This must be led by young women who must reserve themselves for courtship, love, marriage and family. Sexually, they are pretty much the same. They must distinguish themselves in terms of being superior wives and mothers.
Today, if a young woman says she is saving herself for her husband, she will be considered hopelessly old fashioned. She will be treated with disdain, as polite society treated a whore 100 years ago.
This indicates the triumph of Satanism, the "religion" of the modern world, which lurks behind the mask of "secularism." Not coincidentally, virgins also had to hide their purity in Bolshevik Russia.
The defining characteristic of civilization is the consecration of sex to marriage, or at the very least, love and courtship. Marriage and family are the red blood cells of a healthy society, and the basis for procreation.
Satanists understand this very well. That's why they used "sexual liberation," to undermine humanity. As Giuseppe Mazzini said, "we corrupt in order to conquer."
Speaking of the aims of the Illuminati, Benjamin Disraeli wrote in his novel Lothair (1870) : "The foundation of the Christian family is the sacrament of matrimony, the spring of all domestic and public morals. The anti-Christian societies [i.e. Illuminati] are opposed to the principle of home. When they have destroyed the hearth, the morality of society will perish."
FREE LOVE IS NOT LOVE
Most women want to be loved permanently by one man whom she loves. Marriage and sex is the symbol of this exclusive long-term bond. But society is telling young women that "hooking up" signifies empowerment. They don't really want this and it's killing them.
For a woman, sex is an act of surrender and possession. By definition, it requires commitment and trust. For a woman, love and trust are intertwined.
When a woman has casual sex, inevitably she feels used and betrayed. She starts to hate men and falls victim to feminism and lesbianism.
When men had to get married to have sex, women were courted and loved. Later, they were honored for their contributions as wife and mother. Far from protecting "women's rights," feminism has robbed women and left them twisting in the wind.
Anonymous sex cannot compare to sex in the context of a loving relationship. "Free" sex has become a substitute for love. Young women now market themselves as sexual partners, not wives and mothers. Men are also trained to seek sex, not love.
"Homosexual rights" are designed to make heterosexuals behave like homosexuals. Very few homosexuals marry. Very few have children. This is the model the elite envisages for human beings: isolated, alienated and tractable.
A woman should be commended for resisting social pressure ( i.e. social engineering ) and obeying her highest instincts instead.
Through the mass media, the Illuminati brainwash us to think romantic love and sex are a universal panacea that can replace religion (God.)
How many movies and songs repeat the mantra that "love" is the Answer? Woody Allen is 75 and he's still chasing this romantic chimera. This is arrested development.
People aren't meant to be loved as though they were perfect. No one is. Only God is perfect and that is where our love should be directed. As you know, I define God in terms of spiritual ideals such as truth, justice, goodness and beauty.
Men have been brainwashed to idealize women. But women are not meant to be worshiped. That's idolatry. They are meant to be treated lovingly.
In olden times, men chose women for their worth as helpmates. Can she cook? Milk cows? Make clothes? They had no illusions about "soul mates." Men need to look for women who are gentle and accommodating, who have skills, character, personality and make good mothers.
Avoid promiscuous women, feminists and women who are alienated from their fathers. Avoid bean counters (women who want everything to be "equal.")
We need to take the stardust out of our eyes and realize that the importance of sex has been grossly exaggerated. Men are attracted to almost all fertile women. So what? That's nature's way to ensure we procreate. We don't need to be controlled by that.
Sexual attraction is a terrible basis for a marriage. It inevitably fades. In marriage, we should be looking for compatibility, someone whose qualities complement our own and who is easy to live with.
Look at old TV shows to see the traditional picture of marriage. It's not heaven. Lucille Ball and Desi Arnez; Ralph and Alice Kramden were always comically at odds. It never gets boring.
Marriage is a mutual security pact. A woman accepts her husband's leadership in return for his protection and love. Men want power; women want love. Marriage is the exchange of the two. (See Relearning Heterosexual Love.)
Your spouse is nothing like you. There's going to be disagreements. It's not necessary to think alike or feel love all the time. Many women are moody.
Just keep your bargain. Be loyal. Don't say things that will upset her. Play your part. And over time, with mutual trust, a strong bond grows.
And if you can't find a suitable companion, you may be in luck. Thoreau, a bachelor, said, "I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude."
Quotes on Solitude
Makow -- Possessiveness is Part of Marriage