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Porn, Feminism Result in Heterosexual Breakdown

November 4, 2013

17f5439420b4c1e4a48fb19402f782ac.jpgWhy young women
should protect their innocence,
which also is their charm.

"A cultural reaffirmation of marriage and family such as happened in the 1950's is sorely needed. This must be led by young women who must reserve themselves for courtship, love, marriage and family."

by Henry Makow Ph.D.
(Updated from Nov. 9, 2010)

A recent article describes heterosexual breakdown in Japan, a warning to the West of the consequences of Illuminati social engineering. 

Young Japanese men and women aren't having sex. The "celibacy syndrome" portends a demographic catastrophe. Japan's declining population of 126 million is projected to plunge a further one-third by 2060.

jpg" A 2011 survey found that 61% of unmarried men and 49% of women aged 18-34 were not in any kind of romantic relationship... a third of people under 30 had never dated at all...Although there has long been a pragmatic separation of love and sex in Japan - a country mostly free of religious morals - sex fares no better. ... The Japan Family Planning Association (JFPA) found that 45% of women aged 16-24 "were not interested in or despised sexual contact". More than a quarter of men felt the same way."

The phrase
"pragmatic separation of love and sex"  is a clue to what has happened. Thanks to feminism and porn, the two sexes no longer need each other. The sales of condoms is actually declining. Women are turned off because the culture is saturated with porn. Men are jaded and exhausted. Romance is dead.  

These trends are already evident in the West.  According to Pew Research Center, only 37% of US women ages 18-34 say marriage is one of the most important things in their lives. For men, only 29 percent.

In the UK, "Over the past 30 years, ...cohabitation has trebled,  babies born outside marriage has quintupled, and single-parent families has trebled... the rate of divorce has doubled; and half of all children now experience their parents' divorce before they are 16."  (Source)

A cultural reaffirmation of marriage and family such as happened in the 1950's is sorely needed. This must be led by young women who must reserve themselves for courtship, love, marriage and family. Sexually, they are pretty much the same. They must distinguish themselves in terms of being superior wives and mothers.


Today, if a young woman says she is saving herself for her husband, she will be considered hopelessly old fashioned. She will be treated with disdain, as polite society treated a whore 100 years ago.

lincoln.jpgThis indicates the triumph of Satanism, the "religion" of the modern world, which lurks behind the mask of "secularism." Not coincidentally, virgins also had to hide their purity in Bolshevik Russia.

The defining characteristic of civilization is the consecration of sex to marriage, or at the very least, love and courtship. Marriage and family are the red blood cells of a healthy society, and the basis for procreation.

Satanists understand this very well. That's why they used "sexual liberation," to undermine humanity. As Giuseppe Mazzini said,  "we corrupt in order to conquer."

Speaking of the aims of the Illuminati, Benjamin Disraeli wrote in his novel Lothair (1870) : "The foundation of the Christian family is the sacrament of matrimony, the spring of all domestic and public morals. The anti-Christian societies [i.e. Illuminati] are opposed to the principle of home. When they have destroyed the hearth, the morality of society will perish."


Most women want to be loved permanently by one man whom she loves. Marriage and sex is the symbol of this exclusive long-term bond. But society is telling young women that "hooking up" signifies empowerment. They don't really want this and it's killing them.

For a woman, sex is an act of surrender and possession. By definition, it requires commitment and trust. For a woman, love and trust are intertwined.

hooky.jpgWhen a woman has casual sex, inevitably she feels used and betrayed. She starts to hate men and falls victim to feminism and lesbianism.

When men had to get married to have sex, women were courted and loved. Later, they were honored for their contributions as wife and mother. Far from protecting "women's rights," feminism has robbed women and left them twisting in the wind. 

Anonymous sex cannot compare to sex in the context of a loving relationship. "Free" sex has become a substitute for love. Young women now market themselves as sexual partners, not wives and mothers.  Men are also trained to seek sex, not love.   

"Homosexual rights" are designed to make heterosexuals behave like homosexuals. Very few homosexuals marry. Very few have children. This is the model the elite envisages for human beings: isolated, alienated and tractable.

A woman should be commended for resisting social pressure ( i.e. social engineering ) and obeying her highest instincts instead.


sj.jpgThrough the mass media, the Illuminati brainwash us to think romantic love and sex are a universal panacea that can replace religion (God.) 

How many movies and songs repeat the mantra that "love" is the Answer? Woody Allen is 75 and he's still chasing this romantic chimera. This is arrested development.   

People aren't meant to be loved as though they were perfect. No one is. Only God is perfect and that is where our love should be directed. As you know, I define God in terms of spiritual ideals such as truth, justice, goodness and beauty.

Men have been brainwashed to idealize women. But women are not meant to be worshiped. That's idolatry.  They are meant to be treated lovingly.

In olden times, men chose women for their worth as helpmates. Can she cook? Milk cows? Make clothes? They had no illusions about "soul mates." Men need to look for women who are gentle and accommodating, who have skills, character, personality and make good mothers.

Avoid promiscuous women, feminists and women who are alienated from their fathers. Avoid bean counters (women who want everything to be "equal.")  

We need to take the stardust out of our eyes and realize that the importance of sex has been grossly exaggerated. Men are attracted to almost all fertile women. So what? That's nature's way to ensure we procreate. We don't need to be controlled by that.


Sexual attraction is a terrible basis for a marriage. It inevitably fades. In marriage, we should be looking for compatibility, someone whose qualities complement our own and who is easy to live with.

Honeymooners.jpg Look at old TV shows to see the traditional picture of marriage. It's not heaven. Lucille Ball and Desi Arnez; Ralph and Alice Kramden were always comically at odds. It never gets boring. 

Marriage is a mutual security pact. A woman accepts her husband's leadership in return for his protection and love. Men want power; women want love. Marriage is the exchange of the two. (See Relearning Heterosexual Love.)  

Your spouse is nothing like you. There's going to be disagreements. It's not necessary to think alike or feel love all the time. Many women are moody. 

Just keep your bargain. Be loyal. Don't say things that will upset her. Play your part. And over time, with mutual trust, a strong bond grows.

And if you can't find a suitable companion, you may be in luck. Thoreau, a bachelor, said, "I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude."


Quotes on Solitude

Makow -- Possessiveness is Part of Marriage 

Scruples - the game of moral dillemas

Comments for "Porn, Feminism Result in Heterosexual Breakdown "

Tony E said (November 5, 2013):

My life is a testament to the accuracy of this article.

Ever since I saw the 1st James Bond movie back in the 60's my life has neither been moral or normal. I can now see who, how & why . Don't get me wrong, I assume all responsibility for my actions, However, I wish I had seen the big picture & hidden agenda of the Illuminists. I also recognize that I was not in the minority but rather part of a mass mind control protocol.

I was part & parcel of a sexually engineered male responsible for my own demise & that of a moral society's.

Six decades later no love, no womaan only memories of a misspent youth.

MP said (November 5, 2013):

Hey I've got it. A Psyop both ways. It isn't just feminism to blame, it is pornography just as well. One pulls the female towards better treatment and the other pulls the male toward being spoiled. So really, feminism isn't bad, it's just not in keeping with the pornography PsyOp. Women have been abused for centuries. Please don't forget that.

Roman said (November 5, 2013):

Japan is a neurotic, unnatural, "super civilized", over educated , "idiocracy". All day they walk on eggshells bowing down to each other
like to idols and conforming(or rebelling) to pagan traditions. Less than one percent are Christians. They have no purpose, no God. It
takes them a paragraph to say a sentence. Indians make better movies than them. They probably consume less calories and protein per capita
of any developed country. It's good for longevity, but not reproduction. Inbred from mother son incest that used to be common.
The country is suicidal. Only Christianity and some common sense could save it.

Corrupted women don't feel love during sex. They feel contempt and power and superiority over the stupid, weak dog and they get off on it.

To Maria in Kenya (below). I wish all women were like you. Modern men hate your innocence, because they are so sick and evil you make them see
that there is something wrong with them. They are only attracted to sluts. I wish you could go to a different country, but I couldn't tell you where.

Elizabeth said (November 5, 2013):

I'm a 56 y/o female neurologist raised in Wisconsin. I'll be damned if I am to clean the toilets work a job do the cooking and then suck up to my spouse sexually every single time. Men need to realize their wives are EQUAL not inferior in ANY way. YOU are wrong. Feminism did have validity.

Your point on feminism is so "male". Wasn't it better for the slaves (actually the slaveowners)when they didn't realize they were slaves? You men just take advantage. Sure it's harder for a man when he has to meet an equal. So much easier to be a slave owner with his wife in tow. Men don't like to clean toilets or vomit and women just love to do it. I'll tell you a secret women don't really like to do it either but they have to. Women faked orgasms for years to catch a rich mate or because they were stuck in bad relationships and income inequality poor divorce laws. I've had men who wanted an intelligent independent competent women. But most are too weak and lazy. Feminism WAS correct. You are wrong. Men throw out women and remarry younger. They can enjoy prostitutes which I can never forgive. Matriarchal societies scare the s**** out of men and they fear the loss of potency. So they want a cutie pie fake. It's sick. We are all EQUAL. I will settle for nothing less.

Tim said (November 5, 2013):

Thanks for re-posting this article Henry. It's like being reacquainted with an old friend that helped me through a very challenging time in my life.

Max said (November 5, 2013):

I am totally inspired by your articles. You paint the same sort of satanic world that I have been witnessing since the early 1970's.

34 long years in the government teaching service here in Victoria, Australia, all the time attacked by angry, retributional feminists of Germaine Greer's ilk.

Greer: "Destroy patriarchy and Marxism will come willy-nilly." So says the whorish bitch (Melb Uni whore and free-lover) who is now comfortably living in a manor house in the England she said she despises.

I have tried the lot - the wanton whores of the hard faced ones - and have finally found the loving, pure woman you speak about.

I am lucky but I worry much about what our young men are facing!

Keshas, Mileys, Gagas .... everywhere!
Upskirt flashing of their shaved genitals is everywhere, even at my local gym!

Thankyou for your TRUTHS, Henry.

Dan said (November 5, 2013):

Comment [below] for "about having kids that might have a future here in America, on that notion alone there is no way in hell I would bring another life into this realm, what kind of sin would that be?"

I could have written everything he said when I was 29 back in 1984. Nobody could have convinced me otherwise - it seems so logical. In the intervening thirty years I learned that life doesn't follow the logic you impose on it. I decided not to have children for the same reasons. What I learned from friends I knew that had children in the midst of chaotic lives in a 'doomed' world took a couple of decades to see, when those children grew up. It turns out that parents play but a partial role in the outcome of that new human life.
Also, the moment of fatherhood transforms a thinking man's life. It can bring more out of you than you'll ever know you've got if you never experience that.

Mike said (November 5, 2013):

The social conditions in Japan are not necessarily a proof of anything but the effects of the American/Illuminati occupation, compounded by the recent traumatic attack by Israel. The nuclear facility could still devastate the island, and the whole world.

While the article, like so many, blames the Illuminati for brainwashing people through the communications media, how could this be explained except for weaknesses ready to be exploited? - I see the 'feminism' as just reactionary to prevalent male attitudes, and in fact just the reverse side of the same coin.

In a recent article at The Truth Seeker, 'Smoking Mirrors' says: 'Stupid comes about when the vibratory force of materialism exceeds the force of personal detachment from it.' - 'When your devotion is co-opted and programmed by the conscious force of what has been called Mammon, you are just one more fly in a spiders web.' -I think the idea of 'stupid' here is referring to self willed delusion and false values that seem to serve ones purpose.

The family problem may have less to do with the destructive plans of the Illuminati, and more to do with commonly held assumptions, and perceived practicality verses integrity.

I'm reminded of a statement by the sometimes brilliant internet writer John Kaminski, that 'we seem to be fogged in by a false template of default auto suggestion.' -This implies genetic or programmed tendencies in ourselves, and something worth looking into(?).

Tony B said (November 5, 2013):

Henry, I turned 17 in 1950 so the 50s was "my" decade. I don't think there was any "reaffirmation" of marriage and family then, I think the old affirmation was still in play. Especially the family part, the concern for the kids over self concerns. Americans were more religious then and took much greater personal responsibility for their actions. Although, even then, probably mostly because of the uprooting of normal life due to WW2 and the many societal changes afterward, every year was setting a new record for divorces.

Many girls still kept their virginity for marriage but many didn't. However, it wasn't a bit as it is today. Those who were not married dated. Sex was still pretty sacred, most girls who "put out" did to their boy friends after a time of dating and because the couple had real feelings for each other, usually with intention of marrying when it became possible. Sluts were relatively rare and guys quickly became wary of them. Plus when a girl got pregnant it was a disgrace, mostly for the sake of the child, which appears to be an afterthought or no thought at all today. Plus everyone in the whole world understood without question that abortion was unthinkable murder. Only the super rich, overly upset by scandal, would send their daughters to some criminal doctor who did such murder. Many couples who married because of pregnancy had very successful marriages as they came to appreciate each other more as time passed and both loved their children.

Of course, as well as rare abortion, there was no pill, which was a very good thing, nature being a true help for a girl to overcome temptation and say "no" with meaning. The pill has much to do with the sexual dysfunction and destruction of today.

A good simile is today's throw away diapers. When those things came out the makers said they would only be used for traveling and such. That gave me a good laugh as I raised by myself three kids when all were in diapers. Cloth diapers that required rinsing and washing. It was obvious to me from the first I heard of the things that it was the end of cloth diapers. Same goes with the pill and self restraint. Obviously it would be unmarried young girls in heat who would be most anxious to use the things. Very destructive of moral society.

BTW, cloth diapers made excellent gun-wiping cloths.

Chris said (November 5, 2013):

From my perspective being a 29 year old male who struggles month to month, I can see exactly what you are talking about as my choices are between something worn out with four kids by two different men who can no longer bear children and one that only wants to have sex if she is twisted on vicodin…so needless to say been flying solo these days.

However I met a young lady, 21, no kids, pursuing a associates degree, nice figure, good catch… she actually came by my house and we talked and made a real connection but I am too poor to afford to spend any time with her as my money goes straight to folks who think utilities are made from gold.

So now we still talk from time to time but that relationship isn’t going anywhere. I could see the look of disdain when she saw the old wood fireplace I use; my mother who lives with me as she is unable to be independent..things about my life that weren’t quite up to the current level of modernization that society tries to live up to.

So I find myself wondering whether I should attempt to deal with another man or man’s leftovers, shake a bottle of pills like Scooby snacks if I want to get laid, or rob a bank to afford a decent girlfriend.

So I guess that is my point, not only do we men and women have to deal with the very valid agenda that is feminism but also the divide among ourselves that finance creates. Can’t tell ya how many women I have been good to, only to see them run off looking for the better score while the whole time telling their friends, “He is so great, but its’ just not there.”

Oh yeah and also there is that thing with me about having kids that might have a future here in America, on that notion alone there is no way in hell I would bring another life into this realm, what kind of sin would that be?

JG said (November 4, 2013):

I personally witnessed the breakdown of the American Family unit in our own blue collar neighborhood in the late 1960' and early 1970's.

Three housewives would meet for coffee every morning and one day decided to divorce their husbands. The result was chaotic.

One woman was shot by her husband when she tried to return. The other two stayed divorced and their families were never the same again. The kids got in trouble and between the Father's job and his personal exhaustion it was just too hard to look out for everyone.

Divorce complicates a person's life and the majority of the time it's for the worse.

The agents of Satan appealed to these women by way of deception. They convinced them that marriage was a form of enslavement.

The very foundation of the Feminist Movement is based on this same premise of false persecution.
The Sexual Liberation Heresy was peddled the same way to the public.

Free sex without the commitment.

It really amazes me how some people can have a "one night stand" with someone and later run in to them on the street and ignore them like it never happened.....that's sexual liberation!

Is the human race now just having one big orgy?
The Apocalyptic Age is rapidly approaching and life will be a living hell for the ones remaining when commitment, love, sacrifice, and good will are no longer the norm of society.

Once courage goes, then self respect leaves with it. And once self respect goes the loss of respect for women and children usually follows.

George said (March 3, 2011):

I see so very many hopeless little sluts shuffling about these days, all tattoos and piercings everywhere possible giving ingress to STDs, all mandatory cell-phones and cigarettes, all hopes of even some dreams of love, of something brighter, already devastatingly dashed by early experience, forever trying in vain in a useless attempt to find some favour with young guys, also already jaded who take what the girls give for granted, in acquiescing to more and greater kinky demands and ultimately both sexes facing a hopeless future without even each other to cling to .... the Globalist NWO has surely ruined what it could ruin and sometimes I feel this is really the ultimate battle between Good and Evil, even though I ceased long ago to be religious ...

F said (November 11, 2010):

“Your virginity is a way of screening out the idiots. It is a good test of who really loves you and who wants to use you----Henry”

Growing up, my parents always reminded us (their 5 children) of what you say above.
Thank you for reminding me now again.
Modern day humans make life so complicated...The human body, along with nature, have always been well equipped to bring civilization forward.
I defend virginity as a defensive protection....

We think that we have outsmarted virginity...looking around I see that our modern ideas have outsmarted us.
We arrogantly continue to make we deserve a prize for that we can land a reality show or brag about how messed up our lives are...

We resort to foolish reason & rebellion against long held natural traditions that have for the most part, guided humanity successfully.


Gabe said (November 10, 2010):

I would like to express my agreement with what Kara writes below. We should avoid at all costs seeing things in black and white: not every woman who enters marriage (or a long-term commitment, for that matter) needs to be a virgin!

There has to be room for life experience, too - and for the possibility of making mistakes: I am sure that there are many, many men and women who have been lead down the wrong path of promiscuity -and have survived, learned from their mistakes - and moved on to more faithful, satisfying relationships all the same.

Jay said (November 10, 2010):

Thanks Henry

Your recent article was great. I was miffed at my wife this morning. I read your piece and realized what a great thing I had. I woke her up with a kiss. She's been flying high all day.

Again thanks. We forget so easily what we have in this world.

Shayne said (November 10, 2010):

The 'liberated' woman you marry may have had twenty or even fifty lovers... this is now apparently 'accepted' by males? However, consider, if your wife has had twenty lovers before you, what are the chances that you're a better lover than all twenty of them? I would guess it would be slim or non-existent. Thus when you marry the 'liberated' woman, you are virtually guaranteed to disappoint her in bed... as her mind goes back to 'Freddie' or 'Rex' or whoever gave her the best time in the sack.

What chance does that marriage have of sticking together?

Tim said (November 10, 2010):

I was extremely impressed by what you had to say on Satanism.I was a Satanist that became a Psychic that discovers Jesus Christ is real.In fact I wrote a book called A psychic discovers Jesus.I just really want to thank you for posting what you did because so many Christians in America and in England just can't imagine how intense the spiritual war is................

Maria (from Kenya) said (November 10, 2010):

Thanks for the article. I am 24 and a Virgin but I have to keep it a secret coz there is so much hatred for virgins in my county. There was even a debate on the radio about a woman who could not get a date because she was a virgin.

Many men called and said they wouldn’t date virgins because they are “inexperienced” or there is something wrong with them, “unattractive”. I have to make up lies and pretend I am not a virgin to get by.

Everyone would laugh at me if they knew the truth. I have dumped many guys because they kept requesting this. The ones I told the truth and who I thought had ‘genuine’ love for me have dumped me. I was depressed for a while but I have gained confidence that there is some guy out there who will respect my virginity.



Your virginity is a way of screening out the idiots. It is a good test of who really loves you and who wants to use you.


Mark said (November 10, 2010):

More men now are finally saying they have had enough and are silently fighting the feminist agenda tooth and nail, shunning the career women and feminists....however unfortunately a new breed of 'feminist liberation' has taken on a promiscuous whore image.... which is a bastardization of the original feminist ideal, so that the only exercise of 'empowerment' left is self-denigration, to expose oneself as a whore, as another right and/or rite of passage in the minds of the duped... little do these women realize that you cannot mandate or manipulate the genetic makeup of the human species in a few short decades.

The result of the madness is literally the death of marriage and relationship among the genders...for many men have opted to not marry and to seek self gratification in the easy pickings of the never ending supply of whores now in the Western world...who have made themselves this way....and those young girls who thought they were sold the Golden Apple were actually sold the Highway to Hell...its too late.

The millions of barren wombs out there who have opted out of motherhood, self sacrifice, marriage and fidelity are mere tools for the Illuminist population reduction goals, and sadly some seem to be okay with it.... almost like sheep endorsing the Wolf. Truly a sad state for humanity and a swift fall from Grace for the fairer of the two sexes, once regarded as a "lady" is now a tramp..often with a stamp and other body jewelry to signify her transcendence from mere mortal goddess...empowered, bold and brazen..her wild eyes full of lust, fueled by Satan's powerful hold.... if men would simply turn their backs on these women it would end quickly.

Alan said (November 10, 2010):

Henry I GOT It on Promiscuity & Death of Love article - so much after 28 years of marriage and 5 kids. My wife who can be my adversarial at times always comes around and we help each other see the other point of view. I sent this to her last night and she agreed with it.

If the first two responders "didn't get it" it's because THEY DID, it's called conviction followed by denial or acceptance, sometimes the TRUTH hurts.

Kara said (November 10, 2010):

I just wanted to let you know i read your article on promiscuity and the death of love. Now i will tell you thats a little misleading. What do you say to the woman who has given her love like me many times only to have my heart ripped out. If it wasn't for men hurting all the time we wouldn't feel the need to replace love with sex.

I stayed with a man for eight years the father of my kids only to find out he was never truely divorced and had been cheating on me from day one. Oh and i was gonna leave him for an old flame of mine we were even gonna move from michigan to texas and he was gonna go to work for my dad but then a month after i give him my dads personal cell number to give my dad his info he stopped talking to me and then a month after that he gave me the talk that he doesn't mean to be crass but that he needs an independent woman.

But then 3 months later come to find out it was because of another woman. So stop saying women dont want love because we do,but everytime we do love someone or even say we love someone its basically shoved up our asses. As far as me i have a shield of protection around my heart and its very hard for men unrelated to get in which could be happening with the rest of the women cause once especially a woman is hurt so much they try and build a shield of protection over their hearts and everytime they are hurt it gets harder to trust thus the shield becomes thicker with each blow. But women also do feel the need to have sex as well. Me personally i want nothing more than to love and be loved back.

Chris said (November 10, 2010):

Man your losing it re: promiscuity …..

Your writing is fanatical now to the point you sound nuts and I agree with ½ of it !

Write THEN drink before you make us males look like the media portrays

What are you a double agent?


Thanks Chris,

I'm perfectly sober and saying what my intuition is telling me.

best wishes


Henry Makow received his Ph.D. in English Literature from the University of Toronto in 1982. He welcomes your comments at