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Extreme Spiritual Makeover

January 26, 2011

extreme-makeover.jpgby Mark Palermo
(for henrymakow.com)




Thomas Merton once asked, " Who has less to say than the mass mind?"

I am reminded of Merton's  words every time my wife watches  Extreme Makeover.  Perhaps you have seen it. They take unattractive people and improve their looks, sometimes dramatically.

Each time I watch, I ask, "What if people redirected part of that energy to developing their minds? What if the audience applauded her emotional growth, her spiritual advancement, or even her new found political consciousness?"

My version of Extreme Makeover unfolds this way: Instead of the contestant starting out as a wallflower, she is beautiful before she becomes a contestant, but she is also ignorant, shallow and self-absorbed.

In my pilot show, a young woman named "Jane Doe" transforms herself through rigorous study, discipline and self reflection.

After the months-long process, her family and friends are in the studio audience anticipating the unveiling of Jane's new "self."

A nervous buzz pervades the air. On a stage, dressed in jeans and a black turtle neck sweater, Jane is seated at a conference table surrounded by Bulgarian art students, anarchists and homosexual poets.

She is shapely, slightly plump; but somehow more attractive than the skinny, tense person she had once been. Her face is relaxed, shows more character and- can this be said in America?-  more womanly, radiating a mature, but earthy feminine essence.

She looks up, and faces the camera: "Just think, I used to be a mindless consumer of fashion and beauty products; preoccupied with my looks and status. It's no wonder I needed antidepressants. And of course the only guys I attracted were cruel, unfeeling and egotistical. And I blamed all men for my malaise because it was easier that way." 

The crowd applauds politely. The camera moves in closer: "I have read 41 books in the past year and developed my intellect, my world view, and my political consciousness!"

bowler_the_beautiful_beatnik_p16apr60.regular.jpgShe presses on. "I used to blow hundreds of dollars on clothes each month to fill my existential emptiness. I affected an attitude of cool detachment, while eaten up by feelings of inadequacy. I wore the mask of false confidence, but I was an impostor."

The audience is applauding, this time more loudly. She has touched them. Her parents are weeping with happiness.

Now the MC is interviewing Jane's Mom.

"We always worried that our Janey would become another mindless pyramid builder in the New World Order. But now that she is an autonomous, self reflective person that shows solidarity for other people... Well, my husband Ted and I are just so pleased..."

She dabs a tear from her cheek.

The camera returns to Jane, who is smoking an unfiltered French cigarette. "Now that I am self reflective, I'm reading Spengler's Decline of the West; next month I am tackling Proust and Genet.  I am questioning my teachers, my government, and most of all, myself. I am planning a trip to Cancun, not just to lie on the beach, have anonymous sex, and stumble around drunk in clubs, but to immerse myself in the folklore and Mayan culture of Mexico, where I'll actually stay sober and visit the pyramids!"

The studio audience rises from their seats. Some men whoop and stamp their feet. Women swoon. Other men stare in amazement - as if in the presence of the sacred or profane. The resounding applause shakes the very rafters.

What a makeover. Jesus, Mary and Joseph! A young soul has bloomed: and a provincial girl has become a self reflective woman... Homeland Security has been notified.

 http://www.freshjournalism.com

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Mad Take on "Grease"


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Scruples - the game of moral dillemas

Comments for "Extreme Spiritual Makeover "

Jennifer said (January 28, 2011):

Jennifer Replies to Vivian:

"I am going to hug my husband extra hard, for he knows my spirit, not just my body, he has all of me and I have all of him."

It is a matter of perspective and relative to what? Thus, if we were to put people's spirit "level" on a scale from 1 to 100 for arguments sake, generally, most people would fall in a 20 to 40 range and if you were a 30 and your husband is a 25 -that is not going to threaten him and it is easy for your husband to "know all of your spirit".

But if you were Jennifer and walked in my shoes being Native American from a renown family of shamans, aka psychic healers, and were spirit level 95 then you would learn to keep your mouth shut.

It does not matter if my husband understands or consciously knows why he appreciates and loves me. The body and the spirit are intimately intertwined and circle upon each other. Even you resort back to expressing yourself via physicality - a hug instead of throwing your husband an ethereal cosmic kiss.



Vivian said (January 27, 2011):

Jennifer said (January 26, 2011):

Since I am beautiful and smart it is easy to play whatever game men want ... My new husband tells me he loves how quiet I am. Wink wink if only he knew the oceans of thoughts in my head, the spiritual voice in my heart.... So I'm writing a book.


That is has to be one of the most heartbreaking things I have ever read. think about a couple growing old together and the sad day comes when one of you is leaving this world. As you hold the one you love in their final days/hours/minutes and this gem was never shared between you two.
Ocean of thoughts and her spiritual voice? Silenced in a game to make someone else feel good?

I am going to hug my husband extra hard, for he knows my spirit, not just my body, he has all of me and I have all of him.


Mike said (January 27, 2011):

Not sure if I ever sent you ths, but, its MAD Magazine's take on the movie GREASE. I think I was about 4 or 5 when I saw it first and can definitely say it made me wanna value a Hot Chick over a Plain Jane....!

Now girls do find their value in that because men are sex/love starved because woman HATE marriage ...and so men are NOT getting regular sex and so are having to deal with that,whilst woman just taunt men looking sexier & behaving cheaper than ever.

Vicious cycle if ever there were one !


Bill said (January 27, 2011):

While I enjoyed reading the Extreme Spiritual Makeover article, and maybe some parents want this type of thing from their girls, Jennifer has it right when she says; The reality is men do not need much from a woman - just someone that they like to look at--beauty and have sex with, sweet, uncomplicated, kind and generally quiet. I would add companionship.

In fact, the pastor of a church I attended years ago used to say: Marriage is a Covenant of Companionship. Somewhere else in my Christian reading I recall that Intimacy is the goal of marriage and that Sex is The Act of Marriage.

Paul confirms this idea in the Bible when he says: do not be joined with a prostitute, for when you do this you become One with her.

Finally, the part about men desiring Beauty above all is true for me. Although I know that outward beauty is not important and that character and attitude is - I still want it and will not settle for a fat or ugly - or even an average looking woman. I want a beautiful woman that makes all the other men jealous. Call me a victim or cultural conditioning, but that's reality.


Len said (January 26, 2011):

I would have to agree with most everything Jennifer said [below]. But believe me in this observation also: a spiritually minded man loves a wife or life-companion who shares many of the same views and who will challenge each other to live "higher and deeper" in the fullness of life, including spiritual values and insights.

Appreciated your comments very much. Especially the wise insight that "a man does not want a competitor in a marriage," he desires a compliment and a comfort and a companion. - and for THAT he will do almost anything for her.


Jennifer said (January 26, 2011):

It would seem to make sense that women's minds, emotions and spirituality should be developed but the reality is --as the other article posted on the Save the Males site entitled: The Sexual cost of Female Success clearly demonstrates is that the more developed/educated a woman becomes the more alone she is.

I began modeling at the age of 4 because people thought I was beautiful but my parents emphasized that beauty without brains was nothing.
Thus, I was the good studious girl that did not buy into fast easy sex as I was raised with strong Christian values. I never tried any drugs or drank alcohol. I was a philosophy major and focused on ethics and studied spiritual knowledge. I taught dance therapy to pre-schoolers. I got married and was a good housewife but my husband, a Harvard lawyer ran off with a younger brain-dead-pill-popping-stripper-with-big-fake-boobs. He said he was bored with my intellectual talk, he needed to get away from seriousness and just have mindless fun when he came home from work. After the stripper dumped him for another woman and he got cancer he called me and humbly asked me to do a healing on him from stage 4 lymphatic cancer. I did and the cancer went into remission.

I dated for a while and found that yes thats what men really want -- sweet, loving, caring, quiet, Beautiful girls! Beauty is first the rest is icing on the cake.

Men do not want women who challenge them intellectually or spiritually

Since I am beautiful and smart it is easy to play whatever game men want ... My new husband tells me he loves how quiet I am. Wink wink if only he knew the oceans of thoughts in my head, the spiritual voice in my heart.... So I'm writing a book.

Luckily, my new husband is not into sports, in his free time, he likes to write and play music or watch movies.

We don't talk much --he likes it that way.
The reality is men do not need much from a woman just someone that they like to look at--beauty and have sex with, sweet, uncomplicated, kind and generally quiet.

You really do not need a big developed mind or be able to bend spoons or remote travel or write poetry like me; it doesn't get you married and only creates resentment and competition.


Henry Makow received his Ph.D. in English Literature from the University of Toronto in 1982. He welcomes your comments at