The Unspoken Epidemic -- Immaturity
December 13, 2017
The epidemic has a name.
Arrested development.
Failure to mature in a timely fashion.
Why did it take me 68 years
to achieve maturity?
I welcome your thoughts on arrested development and how maturation works. hmakow@gmail.com
"This world-wide conspiracy for the overthrow of civilization and for the reconstitution of society on the basis of arrested development, of envious malevolence, and impossible equality, has been steadily growing." Winston Churchill 1920
by Henry Makow Ph.D.
When I reflect back over my life, my overwhelming sense is one of WASTE due to a case of arrested development.
Simply stated, I took too long to grow up and now I am old. I expended my precious time, money and energy on specious causes and chimeras. Yes, I accomplished a few things, but much time was squandered.
I am not alone. George Bernard Shaw said, "Youth is wasted on the young." My youth was wasted because I didn't believe in myself, my own ability, instincts and perception. I believed what other people wanted me to believe. I was depressed much of the time.
Society has been subverted by a satanic cult, Cabalist Judaism (Freemasonry.) One of its goals is to infantilize humans. The Protocols of Zion (15) states that the superior intelligence of the Chosen People proves "nature herself has intended us to guide and rule the world." It describes a paternalistic despotism. The peoples of the world and even their governments are "only children under age."
Society suffers from arrested development. Grown men expose themselves to horrified women. Adults play childish video games. They date and pursue sex until advanced age. Movies are based on comic books. Schools are dumbed down and used to indoctrinate. Standards are abolished. There is no spiritual education; no serious attempt to educate or uplift society. Humanity is trapped in a perpetual adolescence.
In 1975, 57% of young adults aged 18-34 lived with a spouse, while just 26% of adults lived with parents. In 2016, only 27% of young adults lived with a spouse, while 31% lived with parents. (Source)
However, I came of age before the worst of this. Why was I such an extreme case? I was extremely idealistic by nature and took society at its own estimation. I respected my elders, worshipped "great men". I imbibed the liberal media and thought society was benevolent.
I didn't discover that we are run by a satanic cult until I was 50, which coincided with my current marriage. If you don't understand the world, and yet take your cues from it, you will not grow up.
THE BIGGEST CHIMERA: WOMEN & SEX
My immaturity was partly due to my failure to win a suitable wife at a young age. I had inculcated the media brainwashing men receive in Western society. Women are put on a pedestal and seen as unattainable Goddesses. Sex is detached from love and is an end in itself. Women are sex objects.
To be complete, to mature, a man needs to possess a woman. For this to happen, a woman needs to give herself to a man. A man matures when a woman loves him, believes in him and depends on him.
All the social engineering was geared to making women unapproachable in a man's mind. The assumption that male-female relations are even natural was being questioned.
Hence, arrested development. When women and sex are idealized, the man is really looking for himself in the wrong place. The male-female dynamic is sabotaged.
GENDER SABOTAGE
This is how I described it in "How I Became a Mensch," my very first internet article in 2001.
I grew up in an era that bought the feminist lie that men and women are identical. In our culture, women are encouraged to be "equal" -- do everything men do, and vice versa. "Equal" became "identical." This retarded my personal development by 25 years. I doubt if I am alone.
"Identical" made me look for for myself in a mate. I was literally attracted to lithe young women with cropped boyish haircuts: my own persona.
I put a woman on a pedestal because she had my identity. She could give it back to me. Some women were immediately repelled. Others enjoyed the adulation for a while, but eventually lost respect.
What I needed was someone quite different from me, my feminine complement...
The breakdown in the traditional family caused by feminism is the main reason for our social, personal and existential problems. People have always derived meaning and purpose from familial roles (e.g. daughter, wife, and mother) and from life-cycle rituals, (marriage, birth and death). Indeed, marriage and family are a God-given path to achieve love and personal fulfilment.
We do not find wholeness by incorporating masculine and feminine in ourselves but by uniting with our opposite. Heterosexual love is the attraction of opposites. Indeed, as heterosexuals we define ourselves in terms of these differences. If we are male, we are not female, and vice-versa, like dark and light. Because I denied these differences, I didn't know who I was. I didn't understand women, and I didn't know how to approach them.
CONCLUSION
I was looking for myself instead of a woman who would help me achieve my goals. Instead of perfecting myself, I made her my god. That will never work. Women are not perfect. They were not intended to be worshipped as sex goddesses are in the movies. Women are natural facilitators. They were intended to help a man achieve mutually agreed goals, and to be loved for doing that.
Brainwashing that inflates the importance of sex is the reason for the arrested development exhibited by many prominent men who lately are being called to account. Their behavior is due to the breakdown in heterosexual relations contrived by Illuminati social engineers.
We inherit the good and the bad from our historical times. I dodged war but not mind control. My arrested development was partly due to subversion by an occult cabal that sabotages society by pitting male and female against each other.
The conspiracy is cosmic. Luciferians have hijacked humanity. They want us to miss our Divine rendezvous. They are determined to arrest human development and enslave mankind in the Communist and Satanist NWO. This is the larger meaning of arrested development.
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Peter S said (December 18, 2017):
I disagree with your notion regarding the Hetro-sexual relationships in marriage. You say; “To be complete, to mature, a man needs to possess a woman. For this to happen, a woman needs to give herself to a man†This line of reasoning exposes itself to logical contradictions. Your proposition is that
(1) Man is incomplete without a Woman
(2) A woman should surrender to the Man.
(3) Man has a right to possess a woman
(4) Therefore the Woman is there as a Man’s “propertyâ€
If Man could only complete maturity by the presence of a woman, then, it means that Man by himself is basically childish until he gets married. Some tell us that Man is actually finished when he marries (whatever that means!) But I wager that we are placing too much a premium on the woman’s contribution towards man’s maturity. Do all women complete a man, or do not many finish a man?
You say that “ Man needs to possess a woman in order to be complete†I am of the opinion that you are reading it all wrong. It is normally the other way round, you included! It’s the woman who needs to possess a man, in order for her to feel secure. That, is where most of the problem arises. I guess that both Man and the Woman, need to surrender to each other "measure by measure" Again, there, we have problems!
Then you say that a woman needs to give herself to the man, for the equation to work and that “A man matures when a woman loves him, believes in him and depends on him†I guess you are giving our sisters a little less than they deserve on the side of logic. Your proposition would work in an ideal world where there is an agreed inequality between Man and woman. Submission by either presumes a subservient nature, which infers "less than" So, for such to work, all must agree that Man is "The Big Dog" That is not gonna happen. A Woman presumed weakness most of the time plays to her advantage, man being clueless!
Your proposition assumed an ideal world and also tends to presume that the “Old Style†tradition of dominant Male even the right of whipping a woman, (remember the Rule of the Thumb!) would have been okay. I guess many would having a problem with that! Let’s face it, men are far from being ideal. They were never really ideal, even in the “Old Daysâ€
My point is this; let us not idealize the past. It was not “good†What the Illuminati and their coterie are doing is not good either. Our solution lies in simplicity. And that, means abandoning "Materialism" That, unfortunately will take some time. They are now, most of them, in the herd of the Illuminati as Illuminati Lemmings;
“Men, it has been well said, think in herds; it will be seen that they go mad in herds, while they only recover their senses slowly, and one by one.†Charles Mackay