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August 2, 2016

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(left, "a nudge in the right direction.")

Thanks to Communist influence, social environment is toxic for marriage


Ken Adachi provides perspective on the article "Feminists Regret Failure to have Families" 




I appreciate the article and comments. I can understand the anger on the part of men who have been forced into an unwanted divorce that they could have no say in, one way or the other. A very large percentage of men in America have had their lives ruined by the poisonous feminist influences on wives and the court system. The loss of a normal relationship with their kids is the especially heartbreaking -- and common. Of course, the kids turn to mush too, without dad in their life. We all know it was planned that way, but castigating those woman who allowed themselves to follow the siren call of feminism, while true, doesn't solve the problem. 

When a marriage is going through hard times, usually financial, and the woman begins thinking about the idea of  divorce, she will talk to people she knows, often at work, and ask their opinion on what to do. This is the crucial nexus at which the wheels of divorce are either set in motion or are braked. It all depends on the counsel given and the nature of the person offering the advice. Since it's a workplace, the feminist viewpoint will predominate almost every time and she will hear nothing BUT: 

"Dump him" 
"He's a loser" 
"You don't need him. You can do better without him"
"Make him pay and you can be free." etc.

If she had a sales job at a department store in the 1930s, 40s or 50s, she would have heard just the opposite advice: -- to stay with him and keep the family together. "Things will work out, you'll see"; "There are always bumps along the road, but remember why you married him and why you vowed to stay together for life" etc. This was because the country, its mores, movies, etc. were dominated by the Christian-enshrined  values of faith, hope and charity and above all, the institution of marriage. We had a lot more love in our hearts then -- and empathy -- for mom, dad, and the kids. And the common desire to see all thrive and be happy.

The Fabian Society and their Zionist sponsors began infiltrating feminists into liberal arts colleges and universities during the latter half of the 60s, and into the 70s when the feminist movement took full flight and spewed its venom all over America through the universities, the boob tube and in movies. 

The Jewish communist family breakers - Freidan, Steinem, Abzug, etc., - got the bribed and compromised in congress to pass No Fault divorce in 1975 (or 76) and you see the divorce rate climb steadily upward, year after year, following that "victory." 

Women are vulnerable creatures to begin with and extra vulnerable when unhappy in the marriage and mulling over the idea of divorce. That's when they need to hear advice from someone with a heart. My wife was presented with the chance recently to give the right advice at the right time with a Japanese woman friend who got married to an American about 7 years ago and had a 5 year old child. He's much older than her, but a good and decent man who is very successful as a symphonic and studio classical musician. He's a little on the cheap side when it comes to saving on utility costs in the home and some things have been annoying her. No compelling reason to get divorced, of course, but she said she was thinking about it to my wife. 

My wife reminded her that we were at the wedding and heard the wedding vows: "Until death do we part." She said she had a beautiful home and a beautiful little girl who makes both of them happier than sunshine. "Why would she want to throw that away over something as unimportant as turning off lights to save money?"  How about their little girl? "You think living with mommy alone is going to turn her into a happy and well adjusted woman ready to take on the responsibilities of motherhood?" The woman quickly realized just how stupid she was for even considering the idea when she had so much going for her. A few weeks later, my wife asked her how it was going and she said: "No problem, Everything's fine. We're happy now" 

That's all it took: a nudge in the right direction.  I just wish to God that there were more women with love in their hearts - instead of hate--  to give the right nudge at the right time.

 


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Henry Makow received his Ph.D. in English Literature from the University of Toronto in 1982. He welcomes your comments at