Dear Henry,

I agree you that marriage is like a team, many women don't realize that men want a trustworthy woman with self-respect, just like on a sports team. Anyone who's been on a college team with some good spirit knows what I'm talking about. Teammates have their roles, and the workload may be different for others. But just because the workloads are different, it doesn't make one member of the team better than the other. They're all together to support each other however they can.

Meh, that's all i have to say, don't stop writing your stuff.

Faisal


Faisal

If the industrialized, "civilized" Western World suddenly spins backwards and we're plunged into the pit of adversity, all this feminist crap will evaporate like the dew on a putting green at 10:00am. We must suffer. Nature makes no mistakes.

DOUG

Hi, Dr Henry Makow

I read your article on the Jeff Rense website and I must agree with you, ONE HUNDRED PERCENT!. Man has lost his place in this world. I broke up with my girlfriend because she wanted me to look like a man but act like a woman, in the sense of being her boyfriend and acting like her girl friends. If we as men can not put a stop this mix-up world, we are truly doomed. How do we as males, with 'Dicks' put our foot down, and say enough is enough without everyone wanting to locking us up?

Brian

Mr. Makow,

I enjoyed your article on Ether Zone. I am happily married to a woman from South America. I am absolutely turned off by American women because they believe too much of what is portrayed on television. One such fallacy is that they are goddesses, and every man they meet should bend over backwards to kiss their self-absorbed behinds. No thanks! Attitudes like that can go to Hell! So can the masculinized women who want to challenge every man who isn't willing to buy into the women-first attitude. I am lucky to have met someone that is more conservative minded. I wish that other men would quit selling themselves out for a cheap thrill. No wonder women here think that men are a dime a dozen - they are indeed! Women here in the US get away with murder, not to mention the laws that support them, if men would pull their heads out of their asses, perhaps this woman-first society could be turned around. Knowing the male "sex first" mind, I won't hold my breath. I will get out of this ridiculous society at the first chance I get, as well as it's hang-ups. Life is too short to spend it chasing after women, who seem to be having a love affair with themselves, and their cell-phones. Life has to be more than that. If it isn't, then we are truly a pathetic bunch!

Mike M.
California

Great article Henry, just great!

There's nothing worse than when you look at a woman and all one observes is
a mouth instead of beauty and nurturing, maybe the french philosopher had
it right when he said..''once you've rid yourself of the desire for sex
you've rid yourself of a terrible burden'' something like that he said
anyway.

I'm sure when the sex side is out of the way is the only time we see the
true personality, a beautiful woman approached me in a bar one nite and
said..''i'm taking you home'' ( in a very sexy way) and when i said
''why'' she ''freaked'' on me, lol

I guess she was insulted that I could not really give a damn and ignore
her advance and sexuality..

I should have gone she was a beauty!

damn lol

take care
Garry

just read your latest article September 28, 2003... and it was excellent. I have also been through certain funny relationships with feminist women and it never worked out. They always told me that I was bull-headed and too intense, and didn't yield. They also didn't like my constant talking about God and the need to rebuild society. Interestingly enough they were always very uncomfortable with that, come to think of it. I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm a nice person. Very giving and caring. But I don't tolerate any mess, nagging or any of those things that these miserable women like to do to emasculate men. And so with my feminist ex girlfriends it always ended on this same note: I simply didn't care about them and their silly philosophies. I tell you, they wanted me to get angry over the sewage that was coming out of their mouths. They wanted me to know that they didn't like men. But I didn't acknowledge them maybe out of ignorance, but mainly out of me knowing that I am a man, and I am King. I am the first. I am the owner and the maker. By God's permission of course, that is the way it's ordained. Maybe it sounds arrogant, maybe insensitive, but I don't mean it to be. Don't get me wrong, I don't walk around telling women that either. I just know it. And they know that I know it. So since I had that attitude, I would never see them as a ... perish the thought.. "Challenge" or as my 'adversary.' Never. And they wanted me to so badly. They couldn't take that I didn't see them as competition, so the relationship always ended. Most of my feminist women girlfriends always ended up being real women ... they lost that pseudo phallus syndrome quickly... but guess what.. I'm celibate. And I wouldn't yield to the sexual power either. And that definitely didn't work for them because they couldn't control me at all. They went at me like I was some stupid notch on their little belt. They didn't approach it out of love; they approached it out of a way to get me to yield. And when that didn't work, they then resorted to the denigration of the male, using some of the most simplistic arguments that I've ever heard. And.. all these women at some point in their lives were molested by a father figure of some sort.
I wanted to know: do you have a lecture series going on , or do travel and speak. Thank you for your time.

Joseph

My friend coined a term for modern independant American women, he calls them PC's= Power Cunts. God help anyone who hooks up to one. Just hand your balls over in a jar on your wedding day.

Michael

I'd just like to say that you are right on target.
I'm 32, and until recently have been completely
hoodwinked by this feminist lie. During my school
years and on into college, we were indoctrinated (by
the media too)with the notion that women are better
than men, and that it is rude for us to assert
ourselves. This proved disasterous to my marriage.

I was afraid to say anything, for fear of offending my
wife. She controlled everything, and it eve ngot to
the point where I was carrying her purse around the
mall (Lord, what was I thinking?!). Eventually,
though, her overbearing attitude caused me to snap. I
cut her off from sex, as in the article, and began to
take charge. Unfortunately, she was so used to
controlling men that it caused her to seek that
controll elsewhere and she began to have affairs. So
we divorced.

I guess the point is that you are 100% right. I'm
glad you, and others, write these things because if I
had this material available when I was younger, my
life would have turned out much better. Now I try to
"educate" other men about this, but it is very
difficult. They are brainwashed with the notion that
they must be submissive to women. It takes a disaster
for them to start questioning the dogma. But, I guess
that's like everything else in life; we all have our
own personal brick wall to bash our heads against. =)

But anyway, good job and keep up the good work!

Lee B.

Mr. Makow,

I recently ended a three-and-a-half month relationship with an intelligent, beautiful girl who's only major flaw, the one I dumped her for, was talking about her x-boyfriends (even x-girlfriends). On our first date we began slipping into the x-conversation. I warned her that I was the jealous type - and now, after reading your articles, I understand it's not just me - and that I couldn't stand to hear about x-boyfriends. I went so far as to say that my jealousy ruined more than a few relationships in my past...

My recent x I think really tried to keep the x-discussion on the low-down. But in the 3.5 months we were together I heard about over 12 people, in slips, and sometimes in detail, that she'd been with. The worst part is that I warned her.

She is one of the greatest people I've known (sense of humor, intelligence, intelligence, receptive) but I cannot stand the images that come to my mind of her and some other guys. I even wrote her a letter explaning my insecurities in detail, to which she responded that, if I came back she'd never say another thing. I believe the damage is already done considering my sexual desire for her went way down after I was in the know. I think I've made the right decision, but I feel somemtimes as though I haven't.

I wanted to thank you for all your work and let you know that I think your advice is some of the best I've recieved anywhere from anyone.

Corey

"For I beheld, and there was no man; even among them, and there was no counsellor, that, when I asked of them, could answer a word."
Isaiah 41:28

I read your article, and absolutely agree with it! I guess the saying: "People who do not learn from history, are doomed to repeat it" I am a heterosexual married male, with four kids. My wife has had problems all her life, that I can tell accepting herself as a woman fully and completely, where it just so happens her mother is this incredibly dominant woman. So naturally, her daughter is following in her footsteps. She may claim she is not dominant, but as we all know, we only admittedly see what we want to. Sometimes, I feel like throwing in the towel and looking for a woman who is absolutely confident in simply enjoying being a woman, enjoying being a mother, and enjoying wanting to be on a team with me! Thank you for your excellent article! I feel a little less alone now, in my quiet suffering. All blessings to you and your cause, Sincerely, another man with his feet on the earth