Men, Don't Give Up on Women!
December 13, 2014
In the video, left, Paul Watson adroitly summarizes the conclusions of
Sexodus!-- "Men are Giving Up on Women and Checking Out of Society"
and "Feminism Leaves Male Sexuality in Crisis."
These articles have caused a minor sensation but young men
are advised to ignore the noise and get on with being real men,
which includes leading wife and family.
"Giving up on women is an understandable reaction but it's not what real men do."
by Henry Makow Ph. D.
According to "Sexodus," young women today are too arrogant, confused, crazy and slutty to consider as wives and mothers. Because of family law, marriage can be lethal. As result, men are withdrawing to a private world of sports, video games and porn. Many of the comments confirm this assertion.
Paul Watson correctly attributes this trend to social engineering. Indeed, when it comes to monogamy, the mass media is a toxic bath.
But it's important to realize that "giving up on women" is precisely what the social engineers want men to do. Their goal is to re-engineer society and this involves destroying our family identity.
Giving up on women is an understandable reaction but it's not what real men do.
Preconceptions like those enforced by "Sexodus" prevent
men from finding a suitable mate.
People are governed by chimeras. Most of these mental constructs are untrue or incomplete.
They're evil spells like feminism. So my advice is to stow self-defeating paradigms and adopt a positive vision.
Masculinity is defined by power. Exercise your power. The backbone of a man is his work. Focus all your energies on pursuing a career which provides you with satisfaction, reward and recognition. The rest will follow naturally.
WOMEN ARE CONFUSED
But you shouldn't be. Women are passive by nature. They're designed to follow male leadership, i.e. their husband.
The Internet gives you an opportunity to sift through thousands of eligible women from all over the world.
They key is to find a woman who wants to follow you.
I found my wife on the Internet in Mexico 14 years ago. Without asking, she sent me a website for my first book. When I saw it, I realized that this woman was willing to help me. It has turned out to be true. She designed this website and keeps it running. She is the Swiss Army Knife of wives. Moreover, she is attractive, loving, honest, intelligent and has a great sense of humor.
Love has to be earned. People think they'll be loved just for whom they are. That's really sexual attraction. It doesn't last.
Lasting love involves mutual dependence. We love the people who help us. We're loved for what we do for someone else. Nurturing is real love.
Like most women, my wife was infected by feminism. We had occasional conflicts.
I said, "you can have love or you can have power but you can't have both." If you want power, go your own way. She has always chosen love. Real women do.
So be subtle. And discreetly educate a woman to be your life-partner. Don't be controlling. Respect differences. My wife doesn't agree with my politics, doesn't believe in Conspiracy, doesn't read my website. I'm happy to be with someone who isn't burdened with this knowledge.
Consult her. Please her because you love her. I bring my wife breakfast in bed every day as a gesture of appreciation.
The critique of women found in "Sexodus" is a self fulfilling prophesy. They want men to give up on women.
Feminism is just brainwashing. You can change her mind. Instinctively women want to belong to a man. She wants marriage and children. You only need to find one who is still in touch with her feminitity.
Take your time and make sure she's not a crypto feminist. Make sure she's really willing to exchange her power for your power, expressed as love.
And make sure you are worthy of her sacrifice and trust.
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Related- "Cruel Hoax: Feminism and the New World Order"
Makow - Men Seek helpmates Not Soul Mates
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---------- Men Must Champion Feminine Women
---------- The Dying Art of Femininity
Mark said (December 19, 2014):
Your articles on feminism have been SOOOO helpful to me. This one in particular was so timely cause I am so very close to giving up totally. Not that the men dont have issues but these women are just plain strange if you ask me.
They have been thru a few boyfriends or husbands and then they meet a guy who genuinely does care about them and shows interest and its like they get mad or offended, point out all your faults and generally are very hard towards you. You cannot get thru the armor they have on and to be frank I find it tiring trying to do so or its like my "crime" was showing any interest at all.
I understand and empathize that they have been hurt, I have been hurt real bad too and I want to help if I can but they seem to prefer abusers, nice guys like me do not cut it. I have heard so many times you have a great heart ..........but........... there is always a but in there.
I have to say Henry and its hard to admit as a man I didnt know what it takes to have good relationships and I did not know what feminism was, nobody ever taught me anything about it. Until your site that is but its very late in the game and family is pretty much not going to happen now.
I have never had much success with females in general and I realize now feminism has had a major part in that. I am 52 now and I know my chances of ever meeting a woman that loves me and has a good heart and is halfway attractive is VERY slim but you have given me a boost to keep trying a little longer.