For Women, "Hooking Up" Isn't About Sex

March 7, 2013

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It's about conformity



Clearly young women are not giving themselves
to strangers for pleasure but rather because
perversion has become the norm.



It's occult
social engineering





by Henry Makow Ph.D.

Young women today literally have been thrown to the wolves by the satanists, traitors and perverts -- the Illuminati (Masonic) Jewish cultural elite -- that killed traditional courtship. Naturally, these women cannot conceive that society has been subverted by a deceitful, occult power that wishes to dehumanize them.

freitas1.jpgDonna Freitas, left, has a book, The End of Sex: How Hookup Culture is Leaving a Generation Unhappy, Sexually Unfulfilled, and Confused about Intimacy, that is based on anonymous surveys of more than 2,500 college students. She couldn't find "a single student who cited a long-term, committed romantic relationship that emerged from a traditional dating trajectory."

Furthermore, young people don't like casual sex nearly as much as they pretend to. A measly four per cent of those she surveyed agreed that the "the best kind of sex is with no strings attached," and a massive 59 per cent agreed that "to engage in sex they needed to be in a committed relationship."

These numbers, however, are belied by the "hook up" culture that pervades campus and beyond. 

"Although many students talked at length about having had sex," writes Freitas, "few mentioned whether or not they had enjoyed any of it. The act becomes largely irrelevant--it is the fact that they can claim the act that matters most."

Clearly, young women are not giving themselves to strangers for pleasure but rather because perversity has become the norm. It's conformity.

Instinctively, most young women want love and marriage. Little do they understand they are victims of a pernicious program of social engineering designed to turn heterosexuals into homosexuals, and destroy marriage and the traditional family in the process.

Despite the media smokescreen, the vast majority of homosexuals do not marry and have children. They have anonymous sex instead. Homosexuals have  been "hooking up" for centuries. It's called "cruisin." Instead of courtship, they have sex with whomever strikes their fancy, often a hundred times or more every year.

Heteros are being turned into homosexuals in the sense that we cannot form a permanent bond with a member of the opposite sex. This is what sexual promiscuity does to people. When sex is monogamous, it serves as a glue between a man and woman. When it is promiscuous, it is the dynamite that blows them apart. This is the hell that homosexuals and all promiscuous people inhabit.

ld66.jpg("Television programmers have rolled out  the Lena Dunham role model because that's how millions of girls feel when they look in the mirror - fat, unloved and stupid." - see comments)

Bizarre and incredible as it sounds, the world is run by a small clique of Cabalist Jewish bankers and Freemasons (the Illuminati) who want to enslave humanity. These people are Satanists. They invert what is healthy and natural by promoting sickness and dysfunction. That's why Lena Dunham, left, the world's ultimate sick, loser, gets a multimillion dollar contract from the Illuminati to "give advice" to young women.

If we continue to believe the mass media, we will be no better off than mice in a mind control laboratory.
We are being inducted into their satanic Jewish cult, Cabalism. They think they are God. That's why they normalize their dysfunction.


The mass media is full of directives on how "hooking up" is healthy and modern. Young women should "experiment with their sexuality." Promiscuity is "empowerment." Young women obey even though they experience just the opposite. They feel degraded and used, for good reason. This is the cognitive dissonance that characterizes our world: the disparity between what we are told and what we experience. We cannot conceive that the inmates have taken over the mental asylum.  But they have.

In the bad old days before women weren't "empowered" (i.e. treated as fire hydrants for dogs,) men had to love them as wives and mothers before they could have sex. Eventually sexual attraction subsides and marriage is based on love as well as trust. But Satanists have inverted the natural order.  Now, sex comes first and women are left trying to pick up the pieces afterward.

What is more conducive to a successful marriage? Young women who consecrate their bodies for the future husband and father of their children? Or women who have anonymous sex with dozens of other men and women? Which one is the illuminati encouraging?

Instead of conforming, young women need to unionize: no sex without courtship and love. It will start small but it will grow. Similarly young men should make it known that they will not marry women with more than 1-2 mishaps.

In "1984", George Orwell metaphorically predicted a world where everything would be bent 45 degrees. Eventually, people walked at this angle and thought it "normal." We need to confront our predicament and walk straight and tall.
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Related -

Makow -  How Feminism Killed Courtship on Campus

--------     Liberal Jews, Sex & the New Satanic Order
http://www.henrymakow.com/liberal_jews_sex_the_new_satan.html

http://www.salon.com/2013/03/03/finally_a_nuanced_look_at_hookup_culture/


Comments for "For Women, "Hooking Up" Isn't About Sex"

Mike said (March 8, 2013):

Great article,....But sadly I find even this "lets women off the hook".

Of ALL the women I have met in the last TWENTY YEARS,...not one wanted to talk about Marriage. Not one could cook or clean!. ALL were obssessed with "money & work & other careers they wanted"...and ALL loved "the sex".

But what ALL these women LOVED & were OBSSESSED with even more than that.... was the "game" of making ME jump through hoops, break my back & sweat blood over trying to "keep them",....from their other daily endless better offers they ALL thought they were worth.

I'm not wealthy.

Never been wealthy, not going to be wealthy. I've accepted that. Couldn't care less...if you paid me !!. Women DO. In fact MONEY has been....I'd say....90% of the reason women have left me. Sorry my sickness money doesn't quite buy you your dumb plastic sh*t,ladies !. I was hoping for REAL FEELINGS & EMOTIONS...Never found any ! Oooh I feel so USED & CHEAP.

*YAWN

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Nearly 40 now....and I am happy & proud to say.....{as twisted as it may seem} an hour or so a week looking at PORN....pretty much deals with any "desires" I have for "women today. The REAL THING offer nothing much else & DELIVER even less. ....But demand more RESPECT than ever before.....that seems yet another mandatory piece of the pie these days,...listening to how they ALL been DISRESPECTED before.....!


Dan said (March 8, 2013):

That's right. In formative years young women shape their behavior to fit in. Saying that is already 'politically incorrect'. Media tells girls they're independent. It's become taboo for coeds to bond with a man in an exclusive relationship, or admit to desiring a marriage and family. The "norm" now is the expectation to secure her professional career first, which means early to mid thirties. In college, the norm is rooming with girlfriends with occasional 'hookups' with a smorgasbord of males.

Television programmers have rolled out the Lena Dunham role model because that's how millions of girls feel when they look in the mirror - fat, unloved and stupid. The "new normal" imposes a very narrow set of impossible expectations on girls and women, most of which are contradictory, and all skin deep.

In television script language that's called "audience identification".


JG said (March 7, 2013):

Sex without love is the new rule. This way you are void of "emotional attachment " which often brings pain and suffering . This is all part of the instant gratification doctrine of sin without the consequences, SO WE THINK!

It's like Satan telling Eve that she surely wouldn't die from eating the forbidden fruit in the Garden of Eden. But little did Eve know that a spiritual death would be the consequence of that sin.


Linda said (March 7, 2013):

Your recent article, For Women, "Hooking Up" Isn't About Sex, is quite accurate. What is portrayed as "reality" via the media is anything but.

Donna Freitas' book, should read The End of Sex: How Hookup Culture is Leaving a Generation Unhappy, Sexually Unfulfilled, DISEASED, and Confused about Intimacy. My daughter is a nursing student just finishing up her junior semester in Obstetrics and Maternity. She has been taught at length to expect many patients with gonorrhea and chlamydia as these two STD's are rampant among young women today. Guess all that sex education didn't sink in.

Interestingly medical professionals DO NOT embrace the promiscuity culture for the obvious health reasons. My daughter is often asked at her doctor's visits if she is sexually active. Her "No" reply always elicits an enthusiastic "Good for you" response from the nurse or doctor.

Doesn't that speak volumes?


Monica said (March 7, 2013):

I loved Rachel's article but do not believe she is alone in her "discovery", as so many young people today come from broken homes, determined to find a better way to live and not end up like their parents. We need to always be on the look out for such young people in our everyday lives, not to proselytize but to be aware of the possibility of opportunities to support and encourage these young people when we come across them.

They need to know that not "everybody" thinks they should be working, instead of struggling with a toddler and a two year old at the grocery store or laundromat.

Society in general, especially through every form of media is very negative towards traditional-minded wives and stay-at-home moms and I know it first hand. The worst part - even worse than having a vehemently pro-feminist mother-in-law, is trying to live with her brainwashed son who places zero value on my running a home, caring for our many children and (worse yet, in his opinion) homeschooling them.

In his indoctrinated eyes, if it doesn't have a paycheck attached to it, it's worthless.

Fortunately our children don't share his viewpoint and are growing into some very amazing and unique adults, with whom he is generally very puzzled. My situation is one of those very rare exceptions, where the pro-women family law situation actually protects our family unit from the possibility of divorce. It's really rather ironic how something designed to destroy the family has actually kept ours intact.


Henry Makow received his Ph.D. in English Literature from the University of Toronto in 1982. He welcomes your comments at