CK said (September 24, 2022):

My life time of experience in this realm has been that the women should take responsibility for their own actions. However the feminist movement, championed by women, taught them how to dress and act like whores.

"Oxytocin is released in intimacy, in which females lose their rational minds...its hard for them to be logical."

My wife made the first move. I was cautious. She persisted. I thought her intentions were that she loved me. Boy, was I wrong. It wasn't long after we were married, she had to have another oxytocin experience. Instead of doing drugs or alcohol, she did sex. She cheated dozens of times, hiding the affairs. In the end she told me I had made a mistake in marrying her. She "kept me around for the money". So shallow.

I find, a high percentage of women live in a phony world. Rarely satisfied with themselves. Most, with makeup and wearing provocative clothes. On dating sites women frequently lie about their age with pictures. When we meet up, they rarely look like they did online. And still married.

Proverbs 31:30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Most High, she shall be praised.

WD said (September 24, 2022):

In your recent article, the author talks about young women who are exploited as if they have no control to get involved with a married man? I found in the past that women are not above stretching the truth either. One lady who had four kids wanted to go out and told me she had been married twice. When the truth came out a month later she admitted she'd been married three times and had seven children. Another women I met failed to mention her three kids were from three different husbands. So it's not just the men!!!

Al Thompson said (September 23, 2022):

Men and women do not bond properly because sex outside of a marriage is immoral. And most of us have felt the devastating effects by being immoral; we always get the bad karma from it.

https://verydumbgovernment.blogspot.com/search?q=sex+before+marriage

Jules said (September 23, 2022):

Hi Henry, Jennifer is right about Oxytocin addiction, but she is wrong about blaming men. It would be terrific if people taught young ladies about Oxytocin addiction and encouraged them to await until marriage for sex. Feminism is there to change women’s natural behavior. Now Jen wants to change men. Men are the same as we’ve always been.

The governments blame men; Jen is siding with power and blaming men. The government and feminism are a conquering army taking our women from us. Our women have sided with the enemy because they view the enemy as more powerful. The enemy is satanic and our women have turned from God. I’ve been telling women for years they should wait for marriage to have sex.

They do not respect me; they definitely do not want to date me. It’s only after the lockdown that I meet some women who think, “there may be a plan to enslave everyone”; that they are starting to take me serious and respect that I am standing up to the real bad guys.

Throughout human history, societies get abundance and turn from God. Then things get bad and they turn back to God.

I am seeing more people turn to God. Women like Jen who blame men have not turned to God yet. Maybe they will while they’re still young enough to attract a good man.

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Jennifer responds:

Jules, of course, you are frustrated attempting to educate women--that’s the job of their father. Fathers used to teach biblical laws and common sense to their children. Fathers used to teach their daughters they were “the salt of the earth” and their gift of virginity in marriage was valuable and sacred. Father’s warned their daughters about predatory men and they protected their daughters.

Ever heard of shot-gun weddings ? Now fathers just drop their daughters off at Plan Parenthood to get an abortion, instead.

Fathers changed. The Deep State via porn-culture made most men immoral. Feminism is a product of the Satanic Deep State Government. Good men and fathers must fight this evil. But the best time to educate a woman is in her formative years by her parents. And a girl will put more weight on what her father teaches about men.

Jennofer said (September 23, 2022):

Jennifer adds-

Oxytocin makes females lose discernment —They literally can’t discern because oxytocin floods their bodies and makes them chemically addicted to the man—that means if they try to leave they literally get sick.

Some get cancer —they get all sorts of health problems —just like coming off an addiction of heroine

Battered wives can’t leave their abusive husbands, who beat them because of Oxytocin Bonding.

This Oxytocin is a bonding agent —like a glue —it makes the woman stick chemical in an induced high to the man she is intimate with and it grows stronger — more bonding when she gets pregnant and then it extends to the child and grows even stronger — no matter what.

God made it this way so women would love whatever ugly baby comes from them. Women have no free will not to love their baby.

God didn’t want a woman to have a choice of loving or not loving their baby—oh of course there are exceptions and reasons why some women don’t oxytocin bond

Some are chemically imbalanced, or who have low oxytocin and just don’t bond to anyone.

Also, the more men a woman sleeps with the more she erodes her oxytocin “glue.” Women are not built to have multiple partners —whores have the highest mortality rate. Women need to know that every added man they sleep with, is exponentially increasingly the years off their life—bring them closer and faster to death. Like smoking cigarettes it increases mortality. Changing partners is dangerous—life threatening for women.

Also, The Pill totally under cuts oxytocin bonding — this is proven in medical studies-- as do other pharmaceuticals. I do not know of any studies on how vaccines effect oxytocin but if it messes with a woman’s hormones it is destroying her oxytocin.

A woman’s natural pure loving nature is connected to her oxytocin bonding ability —if pharmaceutical destroy her Oxytocin then she loses that wonder loving woman ability and that fierce momma bear killer instinct to protect her child.

I basically hung up on my male friend —he just could not wrap his mind around the idea that women don’t have free will when it comes to intimate relationships —of they don’t have free will they are off the hook — Yes that’s right —So we need a society to understand that teach that and protect women.

The "weaker sex” doesn’t just refer to physically weaker they are also “weaker” i.e. emotionally vulnerable — but that vulnerability channeled into love-bonding with one man —in one marriage and motherhood is a strength.

Doug P said (September 23, 2022):

I have read, in old law and morality books that it was common for a man to seek a wife after the age of 35 or so years old, when he was established and could afford to keep a large family. Men would look for young women as wives- women that were in the age range of fifteen to twenty-five.

To get back to reality we have to start learning about what practical and good reality was and the best approach for this is to read very old law books IMO. They are packed with wisdom, especially family-related wisdom. I don't have any in particular in mind, but I recall liking Pfendorf and Savigny the most, and of course, the greatest mind that ever lived, Kant.

Another tidbit I picked up was that married people never bought birthday gift's for one another as this would involve a secret. They knew well that the devil needs secrecy.

Most young men cannot afford to keep a family, this has always been true.

R said (September 22, 2022):

If they're not to blame then maybe they're incompetent and shouldn't be able to consent to sex with strangers and shouldn't be able to decide who breeds with their father's bloodline. In the good old days the father owned the wife and his children and all his property and got to decide who can do what.

"Love" induced by sex isn't love. Even a dog loves his serial killer owner. Real love is love of righteousness. Also real men love real women with a pure love. Free sex created drug addicted subhumans.

"Do not prostitute thy daughter, to cause her to be a whore; lest the land fall to whoredom, and the land become full of wickedness." Leviticus 19

You have done worse than pimp out your daughters. You ran a train on them for free.

Only the Bible has a perfect Law and prophecy. Anyone who doesn't see God's fingerprints is the enemy.

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Jennifer replies-

"If they're not to blame then maybe they're incompetent and shouldn't be able to consent to sex with strangers and shouldn't be able to decide who breeds with their father's bloodline”

If daughters don’t value their sexuality by waiting until marriage —its 100% their parents fault and even more so the husband’s fault as he is the leader of the household. My father never warned me about predatory men or said anything about waiting until marriage. He and my mother did not wait until marriage. I was a romantic and wanted to wait for marriage, but the culture all around treated me like I was insane for wanting to wait until marriage …eventually I had premarital sex..even though I did not want to.

There was zero support from my liberal parents who embraced “free sex” and the Catholic nuns and priests never mentioned it in our stuffy church and parochial school. No teacher commented on it. No mentor- coach —no one said anything to me as a young girl or woman that my sexuality had any value to save until marriage.

However, the opposite message in society was dumped on me, "What’s wrong with you for wanting to wait to have sex until you are married?”

Young women’s sexuality was protected in the past —that’s why in our grandmother's generation young unmarried women were always chaperoned —what happened to the custom of chaperoning ?

Look “R” porn-culture was made and propagated by men for men. Its men’s job to fix this problem —Don’t make this a young girl's fault, who is vulnerable to oxytocin-bonding.

The most unman thing to do: blame young girls for the problems of our civilization. Man-up!